DID YOU ALREADY TRY TO CATCH THE ACTUAL
MEANING OF THE MARRIAGE?
The key provided by the Bible about the
marriage, and that should absolutely be understood, is its aim:
BECOME ONLY ONE
FLESH!
This message
must help us to understand why the fight for the equality of sexes should be nonsense
for the believers since in the couple, man and woman are expected to become two
distinct and absolutely different parts of a same body.
It means that,
as well as the eye and the hand of your body do not fight to have the same
rights and become equal, the man and the woman should never fight for the
equality of the sexes.
On the
contrary, their respective actions should work towards the good health of the
couple just like the various parts of the human body were conceived to work
towards good physical and spiritual conditions of men.
A good
illustration of this is given by Paul:
"22
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23For the
husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is
the Savior of the body. 24Therefore, just as the church is
subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church
and gave Himself for her, 26that He might sanctify and cleanse
her with the washing of water by the word, 27that He might present
her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing,
but that she should be holy and without blemish. 28So husbands ought
to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves
himself. 29For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and
cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. 30For we are members
of His body, of His flesh and of His bones.
31"For this reason a man shall leave his father
and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh."
32This
is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33Nevertheless
let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the
wife see that she respects her husband." (Ephesians 5:22-33).
It is interesting to note that Jesus-Christ has to some extent left his
Father to come and link himself to his future wife:
In these days
when fidelity between the two members of the couple is very seldom, and if you
believe in the existence of your Creator, read what follows to understand the pain
you are likely to cause Him if you are unfaithful:
"13And this is the second thing you do:
You cover the altar of Yehoah with
tears,
With weeping and crying;
So He does not regard the offering
anymore,
Nor receive it with goodwill from
your hands.
14Yet you say, "For
what reason?"
Because Yehoah has been witness
Between you and the wife of your
youth,
With whom you have dealt
treacherously;
Yet she is your companion
And your wife by covenant.
15But did He not make
them one,
Having a remnant of the Spirit?
And why one?
He seeks godly offspring.
Therefore take heed to your spirit,
And let none deal treacherously
with the wife of his youth.
16"For Yehoah Elohim
of Israel says
That He hates divorce,
For it covers one's garment with
violence,"
Says Yehoah of hosts.
THEREFORE TAKE HEED TO YOUR SPIRIT, THAT YOU
DO NOT DEAL TREACHEROUSLY."
(Malachi
2:13-16).
But, while taking
all the teachings of your Father into account, if you start to walk with your
Creator and build a faithful and strong marriage to become one flesh, here is how
your couple will be seen by those who surround you:
An excellent wife
is the crown of her husband!
(Proverbs
12:4).
Only one flesh, the flesh of a king crowned
by the great value and prestige given by his wife!